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Friday 9 August 2019
MEET A CUTE AND HARDWORKING REALTOR, REAL ESTATE INVESTMENT ADVISER AND A PROPERTY GUY. CHARLIE PROPERTY CONSULT.
Meet one of ABUJA hardworking, talented, finest Realtor and Real Estate Investment Adviser.
He has helped a whole lot of individuals in Abuja and Nigeria precisely, gain Real Estate Properties that fetches them huge Return of Investment. He is self confident. He is brave. He outspoken. He is also energetic. He calls himself Odogwu na REAL ESTATE.
He furthermore introduces himself in Igbo and English language. he says.
Aha m bụ Mazi Charles Ekejiuba Uchenna. Abụ m onye na-agbazi na onye ndụmọdụ. Ana m arụ ọrụ n'ụlọ akụ dị na Abuja. Anyị na-ere ala ndị nwere ọnụ ala na ụlọ dị iche iche na Abuja. Na atụmatụ mgbanwe ịkwụ ụgwọ.
He translated it in English...
My Name is Charles Ekejiuba Uchenna. I am a Realtor and a Consultant. I work in a real estate firm in Abuja. We sell affordable lands and houses in prime locations in Abuja. And with a flexible payment plan.
ODOGWU NA REAL ESTATE......
Churchill gifts Alex Nwankwo N3m, land at wedding
Businessman, Olakunle Churchill, put smiles on the faces of his publicist friend, Alex Nwankwo, aka Alex Reports, and his wife, Esther, during their wedding ceremony at Uga, Anambra State, last weekend.
Churchill gifted the couple a sum of three million naira and two plots of land in Abuja as a support to their new union.
Speaking at the ceremony, Churchill said that his generosity was an encouragement to the couple whom he had known for years. “I am quite glad to see my young friend getting married today,” he added.
Meanwhile, it was gathered that it was the first time Churchill, the ex-husband of Tonto Dikeh, would make a public appearance in two years.
The ceremony was attended by top personalities including High Chief Johnbosco Onunkwo, Prince Donatus Okonkwo, Canadian philanthropist – Mr Peter Kilgore and Igwe Chidi Ezenwugo of Uga. The governor of Anambra State, Willie Obiano, was ably represented by the Commissioner for Land, Hon. Bonaventure Enemali.
Speaking at the ceremony, Churchill said that his generosity was an encouragement to the couple whom he had known for years. “I am quite glad to see my young friend getting married today,” he added.
Meanwhile, it was gathered that it was the first time Churchill, the ex-husband of Tonto Dikeh, would make a public appearance in two years.
The ceremony was attended by top personalities including High Chief Johnbosco Onunkwo, Prince Donatus Okonkwo, Canadian philanthropist – Mr Peter Kilgore and Igwe Chidi Ezenwugo of Uga. The governor of Anambra State, Willie Obiano, was ably represented by the Commissioner for Land, Hon. Bonaventure Enemali.
Monday 6 May 2019
WRONG PHILOSOPHIES*
*WRONG PHILOSOPHIES*
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1. *"WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE"*
```Whatever will be will not be; you have to make it be. You have a part to play in what will be in your life, so don't leave it to chance.```
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2. *"HALF BREAD IS BETTER THAN NONE!"*
```Why settle for half bread when you can get a full bread or even own a bakery. This is a limiting belief that positions you to settle for less and it is a mediocre philosophy.```
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3. *"A FOOL AT FORTY IS A FOOL FOREVER"*
```A fool at any age can be a fool forever if he refuses to let go of his foolishness. It is never too late to become wise because the day you wake up and wise up is the day you CHANGE!```
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4. *"ALL FINGERS ARE NOT EQUAL"*
```Yes! Physical fingers in your hands are not equal but that does not make any of them valueless financially, and you realise that they are all valuable. You are not even a finger, so why look down on yourself.```
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5. *"LIFE BEGINS AT FORTY"*
```If you are below forty and believe this, I feel so sorry for you because it means you are not yet alive.```
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6. *"WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN"*
```Is your age coming down? Is your wisdom and knowledge coming down? Is the price of goods coming down? Think my friend!```
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7. *"HE WHO LAUGHS LAST, LAUGHS BEST!"*
```Why laugh last when you can laugh always and why laugh best when laughter is not a competition. When we program ourselves with these strange philosophies,they limit and restrict us.```
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8. *THE DEVIL YOU KNOW, IS BETTER THAN THE ANGEL YOU DON'T KNOW.*
```Why do you want to associate with the devil, the devil depicts evil, no matter how you want to make it look. The Angel you don't even know is doing its primary assignment of guarding you always. Nothing good comes from the devil. Desist from such philosophy.```
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_Change the way you think and talk.. You will change the world around you. You have the opportunity to_
*RECREATE YOUR WORLD*
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1. *"WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE"*
```Whatever will be will not be; you have to make it be. You have a part to play in what will be in your life, so don't leave it to chance.```
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2. *"HALF BREAD IS BETTER THAN NONE!"*
```Why settle for half bread when you can get a full bread or even own a bakery. This is a limiting belief that positions you to settle for less and it is a mediocre philosophy.```
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3. *"A FOOL AT FORTY IS A FOOL FOREVER"*
```A fool at any age can be a fool forever if he refuses to let go of his foolishness. It is never too late to become wise because the day you wake up and wise up is the day you CHANGE!```
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4. *"ALL FINGERS ARE NOT EQUAL"*
```Yes! Physical fingers in your hands are not equal but that does not make any of them valueless financially, and you realise that they are all valuable. You are not even a finger, so why look down on yourself.```
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5. *"LIFE BEGINS AT FORTY"*
```If you are below forty and believe this, I feel so sorry for you because it means you are not yet alive.```
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6. *"WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN"*
```Is your age coming down? Is your wisdom and knowledge coming down? Is the price of goods coming down? Think my friend!```
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7. *"HE WHO LAUGHS LAST, LAUGHS BEST!"*
```Why laugh last when you can laugh always and why laugh best when laughter is not a competition. When we program ourselves with these strange philosophies,they limit and restrict us.```
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8. *THE DEVIL YOU KNOW, IS BETTER THAN THE ANGEL YOU DON'T KNOW.*
```Why do you want to associate with the devil, the devil depicts evil, no matter how you want to make it look. The Angel you don't even know is doing its primary assignment of guarding you always. Nothing good comes from the devil. Desist from such philosophy.```
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_Change the way you think and talk.. You will change the world around you. You have the opportunity to_
*RECREATE YOUR WORLD*
Sunday 28 April 2019
Regina Daniels Not 6th Wife Of Delta Billionaire Ned Nwoko
Nollywood actress Regina Daniels is not the sixth wife of Delta State billionaire Ned Nwoko, contrary to reports, Concise News understands.
This online news medium understands that Ned Nwoko recently got married to Regina Daniels in a secret wedding in Asaba, Delta State.
A source, who is a close friend to Ned Nwoko, has, however, noted that the actress is not the politician’s sixth wife as widely speculated.
Nwoko was presented with an honorary doctorate degree award by the school during an event by the school.
In a related development, Regina Daniels has also come for popular social media influencer, Tunde Ednut over his comment on internet fraudsters, aka “Yahoo Boys.”
Concise News had earlier reported how “Able God” crooner also rained curses on the socialite over his comment on Nairamarey’s support for Yahoo Boys, saying he was wrong.
The teenage actress in her reaction asked the social media influencer to stop deleting people’s insult and let them insult him in peace.
She wrote, “Stop deleting people’s insult to you, let us curse you in peace.”
She equally placed her own curse by saying, ”may God punish you if you don chop yahoo money.
According to him, the actress is Nwoko’s fifth (5th) wife.
He also told CKN News over the weekend that Regina Daniels is 22 years old and not 19 as reported.
Earlier at the weekend, Regina Daniels and Ned Nwoko were seen at the Federal University of Petroleum Resources (FUPRE), Warri, Delta State.
According to him, the actress is Nwoko’s fifth (5th) wife.
He also told CKN News over the weekend that Regina Daniels is 22 years old and not 19 as reported.
Earlier at the weekend, Regina Daniels and Ned Nwoko were seen at the Federal University of Petroleum Resources (FUPRE), Warri, Delta State.
WHY YOU NEED TO BUY REAL ESTATE
Top 10 Reasons: Why You Should Buy a Home Now.
1. House prices tend to rise over time; a home purchase is one of the best investments you can make.
We’re four to five years into the biggest housing bust in modern history. And prices have come down a long way– about 30 percent to 50 percent (certain areas) from their peak. Home prices in the U.S have risen 3 percent to 6 percent a year for the past 20 years, and that trend is likely to continue. If you buy a home now, you’ve put your capital in a safe long term investment where it’s likely to grow.
2. You’ll pay less tax and save money.
You can deduct the interest you pay on your mortgage from your taxable income. New homeowners with recent home loans tend to get the greatest tax benefit. The newer the mortgage, the higher the interest payment each month that means greater tax breaks. Real estate taxes are deductible, providing great benefits to the homeowner. Homeowners often find that owning a home costs substantially less than renting a home.
3. Sell your home when you please.
Sell your home and avoid paying capital gains tax. After selling, you can upgrade into a larger home.
4. The home will be yours.
Do what you want with the home. Paint it purple, have black carpet, punch a hole in the wall. These types of changes are often impossible when renting but when you own a home, you can design it as you please
5. Interest rates are currently low.
This means that home loans are currently extremely cheap! In some areas, your mortgage payment could be less than your rent!
6. You’ll have the peace of mind of owning your own home.
No more worrying about crazy landlords or rent increases, you’ll be able to live in your home for as long as you like, and have a fixed payment each month for 30 years! No more unwelcomed surprises!
7. Its forced savings.
A portion of your payment each month will go to the principal of the loan. This shouldn’t be considered a cost but a savings plan. You’re just paying yourself by building equity. This will be extremely useful when you’re ready to retire.
8. Pride of ownership.
Owning your own home gives the owner and their family a sense of security and stability.
9. Have as many pets as you want.
Love your pets? Homeowners can relax and enjoy their pets without worrying about landlords!
10. It’s a buyer’s market.
No need for you to settle for anything less than the house of your dreams.
Tuesday 30 May 2017
Monday 29 May 2017
MMM Nigeria surprises Nigerians with Democracy day party in Abuja.
MMM-Nigeria organised a green party show in the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) to celebrate Democracy Day
-The party was opened to members of the group and non-members
- The President of Abuja Guiders Forum said the gesture was part of solidarity by the group for Nigeria’s 18-years of uninterrupted democracy
MMM-Nigeria, a group for mutual financial aid and donations on Monday organised a green party show in the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) to celebrate Nigeria’s Democracy Day.
The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the party, which held at the Millennium Park, was opened to members of the group and non-members alike. Mr Seyi Bello, the President of Abuja Guiders Forum of the MMM-Nigeria said the gesture was part of solidarity by the group for Nigeria’s 18-years of uninterrupted democracy.
Saturday 4 March 2017
#WifeNotCook, #HusbandNotATM.
For some days, there has been so much noise across various social media primarily on the roles of women and men in a marriage.
The concept of marriage has been overrated by so many people especially with civilization and the growing feminism movement which has been met with so many misconceptions.
In Africa, a woman is expected to take up the role of taking care of her family once her bride price has been paid and this includes cooking, washing dishes, doing the laundry and other domestic chores, while the man who bears the head of family tag is saddled with the responsibility of providing money for the family upkeep.
So it is more like the woman executes the plans while the man’s duty is to make sure the resources needed for the execution are always available.
Most times, some of them who are working class ladies come home so exhausted that cooking at that point could be a death sentence to them, hence the reason why understanding should be basic among couples.
In fact so many women have literally become executive housemaids with the only difference being that they have kids and raise them with the man who ‘hired’ them (not like some normal housemaids don’t have sex with the bosses and even have kids for them though).
However, education and westernization more people have come to conclusion that the woman doesn’t have a monopoly of cooking and doing other domestic house chores neither is it solely the man’s responsibility to provide for the family.
In this age and time, more women have learnt to be independent, therefore it is not out of the ordinary to see a woman who works and even earns more than her husband.
A lot of people, mostly youngsters have been actively engaged in the trending hashtags while voicing out their opinions on the subjects of discussion.
To some people, cooking is an uphill task and they will rather hire a chef to do the cooking if doing it will make them break down.
Now, the point raised by people under this class is quite understandable and not as awkward as a lot of people think, once such persons are buoyant enough to foot the bills of paying the chef and not have to extort from the husband to meet same goal.
The #WifeNotCook hashtag birthed the #HusbandNotATM hashtag as a lot of men have jumped out of their hideouts to slam women who support the notion of marriage being an affair of equal rights between the partners.
Men under the #HusbandNotATM hashtag are actually making a case of splitting the family bills which simply implies that men shouldn’t be the sole providers in marriages since women are no longer comfortable with the role of cooking and feeding the family.
They suggest that women should also be ready to bring some money to the table with which the bills of the family would be offset and in such case, men will also comfortably enter the kitchen and prepare the dishes for the family.
The truth remains that marriage is no child’s play, therefore it is advised that whoever wants to delve into it be first prepared all round to avoid stories that touch.
If people understood the concept of marriage so well, the #WifeNotCook and the #HusbandNotATM sure wouldn’t be an issue.
Meanwhile, marriage is not for everybody. If you can’t cope fine with the institution, simply opt out than starting what you cannot finish and in the end, looking for who to blame.
Tuesday 27 December 2016
How Kiss Daniel Escaped Death From Robbers' Flying Bullets @ The Calabar Christmas Village
It was gathered that some robbers had stormed the village at about 1am and shot repeatedly into the air while dispossessing fun seekers of their belongings.
Several persons sustained various degrees of injuries from gun shots.
The Calabar Christmas Village, which is located at Calabar Municipal Council Secretariat, opens for 24 hours from December 1 to December 31 every year as a central location of revelry.
According to reports, while Kiss was on stage, the bandits came and carted away some of his belongings.
Speaking with Punch, an injured shop owner in the village, Glory Andem, said the presence of robbers became obvious when some spectators started throwing bottles at the musician.
She said, “It was a serious situation and I got injured. What happened was that some guys came into the village and tried to rob Kiss Daniel when he was singing, ‘Oya talk to me o mama.’
“They were throwing bottles and other things at him. Before we knew it, they brought out guns and started shooting. Some security men immediately rushed to the singer. But even with the security, the robbers rushed at him and removed his clothes and collected things from him.
“They would have killed that guy. To be honest, I don’t know how he managed to escape. You know there are several thousands of people in the Christmas village usually and the situation led to a serious pandemonium.
“They broke up everything in my shop. They took all my money. They robbed a lot of shops. Our chairs were broken. Everybody was running at the same time. It was a terrible experience.
“Several cars were vandalised. They broke the cars to steal from them. At a point, the lights went off and I thought I was going to die. As I speak with you, I have a serious cut from the incident and I want to go to a hospital to take a tetanus injections.”
Meanwhile, the state Commissioner of Police, Jimoh Ozi-Obeh, said it was not a robbery attack, but a misunderstanding between the organisers.
“There was no robbery incident in Calabar and nobody was attacked by robbers in any other part of Cross River State.
“What happened was that the government had initially planned to host the musician at the stadium, but the plan was changed to the Calabar Christmas Village. They probably had misunderstanding with the organisers”, he said
Monday 26 December 2016
I CAN NEVER MARRY SOMEONE FROM THAT TRIBE!
Just thinking about the topic makes me laugh because it just shows how deliberately delusional anyone that makes such a statement is. It shows how backward-thinking that person is, because in this global age where many people are looking for ‘the way forward’, such a person is always on the lookout for seeming characteristics and reasons why being with a person from a particular ethnic group is never going to happen. You know, people sometimes say things that make you want to doubt their sanity. Over time, certain snide comments have been made so often that today in Nigeria, such comments are somewhat accepted and ‘set in stone’.
For the females: Yoruba girls are dirty; Edo girls are prostitutes and witches; Ibo girls are materialistic; Kogi girls are troublemakers; Ijaw women like parties and ‘enjoyment’; Itshekiri women like ‘Oyibo’; Calabar girls are good in bed; Tiv girls are sexually wayward plus they drink heavily; Isoko girls are stingy; Urhobo girls drink a lot. And for the guys, Yoruba guys are caring plus they scare easily; Hausa men are uncircumcised; Urhobo men are polygamous; Ibo guys can really take care of their women (only if she’s Ibo too); Isoko men are stingy; Tiv men will gladly give their women up as entertainment to their friend; Kogi men are touts; Ijaw men are flirts; Ibo guys can do anything for money… bla bla bla would you stop already??
Are tribal stereotypes 100% accurate? Or maybe 80%, 50%, 20%? Does your ethnic origin dictate your personality? For example if Ijaw men are flirts, automatically all the male flirts in this country are Ijaw men, right? Do you grow up to discover that your tribe is known for a particular trait and you naturally find yourself exhibiting that trait, or if you don’t have it yet, you make sure it becomes part of you? Is it also sometimes an excuse to behave abnormally? For example they say an Ibo man can do anything for money, so this young man goes to scary extremes just to get money and he says, “you know my people love money, so it’s not my fault”.
Personally I don’t care that a person is from a particular ethnic group before I become friends or even have a relationship with them. I deal more with personal qualities rather than tribal sentiments. The world is full of beautiful varieties, different cultures waiting to be educated about than for me to weigh myself down with some myopic so-called ‘ethnic traits’. That’s me, so what about you? Do you consider the said traits of a person’s tribe before you consider even saying, ‘hello’ how much more dating? Or maybe you have a list of tribes you would NEVER consider marrying from, regardless of whether the person is a good person or not. If you do, just take a second to think how you would feel if someone you really, really like tells you ‘NO!” because you belong to a certain ethnic group they already decided they want nothing to do with.
Cha Cha Eke & Husband Welcome Newly Born Baby Girl On Christmas Day
Nollywood actress, Cha Cha Eke Faani who recently released photos of her baby bump has just welcomed her second child= a baby girl, on December, 25, 2016.
Eke’s husband announced the news on Instagram. He wrote; “•25/12/2016•
Our Christmas Princess is here!!!
Welcome to my home Kairarachukwu Dior Faani.
My wife, your mother, is my JEWEL of INESTIMABLE VALUE
Kamara, my 1st daughter, your sister, is my PRICELESS GEM & CHARM
You, my Kaira, you are GOLDEN!!! Thank you Lord for blessing me with 3 Beautiful Ladies to love me unconditionally for the rest of my life.
Thank you Lord for safe delivery.
Mommy & baby are doing very well.
Sunday 25 December 2016
Girls and Their Attitude In A Relationship
I notice that SOME girls don't seem to really know what they want and what bothers them at-times. A girl can't help but contravene herself in many ways. One minute she wants this, if you give her this, she wants that and the circle continues.
* A Couples in a relationship. If the guy gets jealous easily the girl says he is immature and insecure,why get jealous when there should be TRUST,and so it becomes a problem.
* If you don't get jealous easily, the girl says you don't love her enough to protect her from other men. She says you don't take her serious and in most cases accuse you (the guy) of making her the side chick since you don't care if he flirts with other men or not.
* She ask you if she looks good in that new dress and you say "yes", it becomes a problem. She says you might be lying and you are not sincere,that you might just be saying so to impress her and so the arguments starts.
* If you say she doesn't look good in that new dress,it becomes a bigger problem.You just hurt her feelings,She says you are a jerk for not complimenting her,she did all that/this(buying the new dress and trying to look good)for you but this is what she gets in return,resulting to more arguments.
* If you say you love her,she says you don't mean it,you might just be saying it to please her.She ask you to say it like you mean it(Like what?).I mean,how do you say "i love you" like you mean it? Shed a tear? go down on your knees? while saying it...Or in the case when its on an online chat,you type it out in uppercases?
* If you don't say you love her, you are in for a Boko haram type of trouble. You are bombarded with a truck load of nagging. She says you are not a bit romantic, you don't express your feelings to her and so on...In some cases, she commands or challenges you to say you love her(This mostly happens at the end of phone conversations)
* If you check up on her or call her up often to enquire how she's doing, it slowly becomes a problem,she says you don't have a life and you are too attached,you are stalking her and you should learn to give her space.
* If you don't check up on her often,it becomes a problem of "you are not caring", "you don't call", "you don't take me seriously" and so on...
9* This point is actually surprising and confusing to even me, but some people would understand what i mean sha. If you are glued to only her, it becomes a problem(confusing right?) Lemme make it clear, if other girls are not attracted to you it becomes a problem for her ego and complex, she take it that there is nothing special about you for other girls to want, you are not attractive as far as you can't attract other girls. She basically want other girls to be envious of her for having you but if not, she gradually becomes tired of you and maybe dump your azz for a more ladies man(can you imagine?).In a nutshell, she wants you to cheat but don't want you to cheat? Lol.
* If girls flock around you, it becomes another problem. She says you are a playboy, a cheat, a flirt. She says you are not a boyfriend material, you can break her heart easily and all that.It gradually becomes a NAGGING problem for you... irrespective of the fact that those girls might just be your friends.
Guys,what would it take to understand these sets of people? To make it worst, we can't do without them, we love them like that.......
Monday 28 November 2016
Common Character Nigerian Youths Of These Days Display
A Nigerian Wakes up in the morning by 7am, goes directly into the kitchen, gets food and eat. His phone's battery is off. He'll pick up his charger and leave home in the search of power to charge his phone. He'll enter all the barbing saloons, Even while charging he's on the phone, Chatting! Chatting! Chatting! When the phone manages to reach 30% after 2hrs of charging and usage, he hangs the charger on his neck with great joy going back home. Without removing his shoes or slippers he cruises into the living room, doing what? Chatting! Hmmm, the phone gets low again, he leaves home again to another barbing saloon, he comes back in the night around 9pm, uses the charged battery till 2am, and this is their daily routine of living and him or her wants to be a doctor.
Indeed Many youths are captives of technology, all they do is charge and discharge, Charge and discharge, charge and discharge, Going around with charger!!!!
Some young people believe without their phones they'll die, some feel like dying ( I was once in dis shoe). Not just the male folk alone, it cuts across both gender. Some of our ladies can stay on phone
for hours chatting away their lives. It is difficult for some to put off their phone even in class or church because of some "international call" & some even get embarrassed in class by lecturers when their phone rings. It leaves one wondering what they would have done if they lived before the 21st century.
When they have a low battery, some can go to a church, even a funeral just to charge their phone!!! You want to be a doctor for example, Its true you've not gained admission, or perhaps you have gained, or you are already a graduate waiting to start-off. Can't you start reading medical related books or start practicing what you have learned? You're chatting with your friend from a barbing saloon where you're charging your phone and he's replying from his office in Shell.
Bro/Sis, this one no be your village people charm oh! You're the devil to yourself.
Please dear friend, understand that what you spend your time doing is what you become. Nobody gets food on his table because he's a great "chatter". LoL. Drop that phone, Think of your future oh. Because you're 18, you think you're still a kid or perhaps you've grown beyond that & you think that there's still time because your parents are still around? That 60 year old man that hawks pure water on your street did what your doing now, many years ago. It pays nothing.
Start developing yourself in there.
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God help our Youths!!!.
Saturday 8 October 2016
WOMAN, DON'T MAKE YOUR CHILDREN YOUR HUSBAND
I have noticed amongst married women both in Nigeria and beyond over what I call a 'deliberate shift of attention, love and affection they hitherto gave to their husbands to their children'. Many women have this nonchalant attitude not to show love to their husbands any more after collecting the sacred nuptial ring. They contend that after all, they are now married, forgetting unwittingly that it is easier to get married than to stay married! Men are creatures of love, forget all the hard nature pretences of manly strength and masculinist ostentation, they seek care, affection, pampering and peace just like women If not more than them. A Man can be overtly jealous but he is more won't to show it than a woman readily would. When women create an emotional void, a shift of care to their kids and a gaping hole of disaffection, most men readily seek love in the arms of other women; mistresses, secretaries, 'friends' and allies. Women later cry foul and say men are cheats. They caused it in the first place. Some women's total dedication two years into their marriage is to their kid(s) especially their male child. Once, their 'joy' eats, they care less. So long he wears cloths, they can't be bothered about their husbands. In all of this, I just wonder who they met first, the child or their husband. Most men will also not complain much about this unacceptable domestic discrimination because of ego, maturity and the fact that the new 'husband' is also their son. They hug their pains and look outside for a back up. It is totally shocking that some women refuse to perform their sexual obligation because of their children. They place their 'sick' kid(s) between them and their husbands to flag the red light and dress like an astronaut to bed to send a signal of 'no signal tonight' to their husbands. It is immaterial whether they have nannies, maids or their mother-in-laws around to attend to the baby. They prefer to make the baby a tool and toy for sexual rejection. Why you should not make your kid your husband.
1. Your child is not your husband but just your child. Know the difference. You met your husband before him or her. The head came before the ache and boil. Don't desert your first love for the new one.
2. Too much closeness and attachment with your son will bring enmity between you and your daughter-in-law in the nearest future. Stop doting over her husband, you have yours!
3. Your sons and daughters will leave you sooner than later! They have their own lives to live. They will marry and cleave to their spouses. If you have created so much distance between you and your husband because of your love for your children, it will be very difficult If not impossible to stage a comeback into his heart.
4. Children are to be catered for, parents are to be respected, husbands are to be loved and submitted to, in everything. Know your role. You have lost your right to dictate your 'bed mood' once you say 'I do' to a man. He should have access to you. A man should also be considerate and not make killing, burdening sexual demands. Remember, a hungry woman is never in the mood, make a woman happy financially and emotionally and you will cure her 'mood swings'.
5. No one can serve two masters! You cannot afford to share your affection equally between your husband and your son or daughter. One party will suffer it even If you don't admit it. Be a 'Ruth' and see the best in your husband. Sow love and reap fidelity, affection and peace.
It shall be well with your marriages.
Monday 15 August 2016
Listen Guys, This is how to know if you are dating a fake GIRL.
Every man needs to read this piece to free himself from that fake girlfriend trying to ruin his life. If possible, tell your friends. Here are simple ways to identify a fake girlfriend.
1. A fake girlfriend will never call her guy for a minute, but continuous flashing is her hobby.
Yes, most Nigerian girls are guilty of this. A man will buy airtime for you, yet she will not call but only flashes him.
2. A fake girlfriend will never appreciate what her guy does for her.
If your girlfriend never appreciates you for the sacrifices or things you do out of love, my brother, you are very much on your own. A fake girlfriend will milk you dry and unconsciously not care.
3. A fake girlfriend will always complain on unnecessary things that has no meaning.
Yes, you read right. Fake girlfriends always nag you to hell. She will complain all the time even on flimsy things. She will want to make life miserable for you. Avoid her.
4. A fake girlfriend always requests for money, she will turn her guy to ATM machine.
That's right. She doesn't want to know where you get it. All she wants is your money.
5. A fake girlfriend won’t listen to her guy’s advice.
Never! She's always argumentative and will never listen to you. A true girlfriend listens and wants to hear from you all the time.
6. A fake girlfriend won’t respect/honor her guy, All she does is to always look down on him.
She is sometime too proud or bossy and orders you around like a baby.
7. A fake girlfriend wont sit down with her guy and talk to him how the relationship will lead to marriage.Yes! She's always busy on the phone chatting with other guys or receiving calls and will not care where the relationship is heading. At every little quarrel, she will threaten to end the relationship.
8. A fake girlfriend won’t ask her guy the challenges he is facing at his work.
9. A Fake girlfriend always lie to her guy.
10. A Fake Girlfriend will cheat on her guy in the end
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