I notice that SOME girls don't seem to really know what they want and what bothers them at-times. A girl can't help but contravene herself in many ways. One minute she wants this, if you give her this, she wants that and the circle continues.
* A Couples in a relationship. If the guy gets jealous easily the girl says he is immature and insecure,why get jealous when there should be TRUST,and so it becomes a problem.
* If you don't get jealous easily, the girl says you don't love her enough to protect her from other men. She says you don't take her serious and in most cases accuse you (the guy) of making her the side chick since you don't care if he flirts with other men or not.
* She ask you if she looks good in that new dress and you say "yes", it becomes a problem. She says you might be lying and you are not sincere,that you might just be saying so to impress her and so the arguments starts.
* If you say she doesn't look good in that new dress,it becomes a bigger problem.You just hurt her feelings,She says you are a jerk for not complimenting her,she did all that/this(buying the new dress and trying to look good)for you but this is what she gets in return,resulting to more arguments.
* If you say you love her,she says you don't mean it,you might just be saying it to please her.She ask you to say it like you mean it(Like what?).I mean,how do you say "i love you" like you mean it? Shed a tear? go down on your knees? while saying it...Or in the case when its on an online chat,you type it out in uppercases?
* If you don't say you love her, you are in for a Boko haram type of trouble. You are bombarded with a truck load of nagging. She says you are not a bit romantic, you don't express your feelings to her and so on...In some cases, she commands or challenges you to say you love her(This mostly happens at the end of phone conversations)
* If you check up on her or call her up often to enquire how she's doing, it slowly becomes a problem,she says you don't have a life and you are too attached,you are stalking her and you should learn to give her space.
* If you don't check up on her often,it becomes a problem of "you are not caring", "you don't call", "you don't take me seriously" and so on...
9* This point is actually surprising and confusing to even me, but some people would understand what i mean sha. If you are glued to only her, it becomes a problem(confusing right?) Lemme make it clear, if other girls are not attracted to you it becomes a problem for her ego and complex, she take it that there is nothing special about you for other girls to want, you are not attractive as far as you can't attract other girls. She basically want other girls to be envious of her for having you but if not, she gradually becomes tired of you and maybe dump your azz for a more ladies man(can you imagine?).In a nutshell, she wants you to cheat but don't want you to cheat? Lol.
* If girls flock around you, it becomes another problem. She says you are a playboy, a cheat, a flirt. She says you are not a boyfriend material, you can break her heart easily and all that.It gradually becomes a NAGGING problem for you... irrespective of the fact that those girls might just be your friends.
Guys,what would it take to understand these sets of people? To make it worst, we can't do without them, we love them like that.......
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